Personality is not one's single quality. It is the combination of several factors. One's personality should be attractive & impressive. Following are some of the factors, which make your personality impressive & effective.

• Dressing style should depend on occasion, crowd of people.
  
• Wear casuals & informal dress for friend's party, picnics, outing etc....
  
• Ladies can wear sarees/ salwar kameez/ sarara etc in marriage, social or religious functions etc... & jeans, T-shirt/tops, 3/4 pant etc...For picnics, outing etc...
  
• Gents can were chudidaar, safari, suit in social & religious function & casuals & informal in picnic, outing.
  
• It's better to go with metal jewellery rather than plastic one.
  
• Never hide your personality by overloading yourself with jewellery & other accessories.

For business work

• A suit/dress with broad shoulders suggests authority.
  
• Always go for formal dresses & polished shoes.
  
• Ensure that your cloths are properly ironed, free from stain, buttons in place.
  
• Ensure that your jewellery/shoes don't cause any voice.
  
• Keep your hair properly set.
  

According to body type
For short & stout women:

• Avoid cloths with horizontal lines, large round collars & also hip lenght coats.
  
• Select tops/T-shirts, sarees having light & thin design & boarder.
  
• If you are wearing saree, wear blouze of same colour rather than contrast one.
  
• You can wear shoes having platform heal.
  
• Cloths with vertical lines will make her appear taller.
  
• Cloths should not be too tight or too loose.
  
• Wear dress with plain, well fitted, full sleeve.
  
• Long 'khamiz' with flare, loose covering pf saree especially round the hips, will hide the size of the wearer.
  
• Wear cloth of solid colour & a small all over design.
  
• Choose rayon, crepe, linen in 'khamiz' & heavy georgette & soft south Indian silk, kashamiri silk in saree.
  
• Prefer shoulder cut hair. Don't make parting & comb your hair straight upward. You can take your hair to little height by back coaming.

For tall & stout women:

• Wear dress with diagonal line, not fitted one & avoid dress having special decorative puffed sleeves.
  
• Avoid cloths that are too tight & short, as you will look taller.
  
• Avoid showy, bulky decorative & bright coloured cloths
  
• Cloths with straight line in collar, pocket, belt are preferred.

For short & slender women:

• Keep your hair short.
  
• Select medium sized accessories.
  
• Little loose-fitting clothes are advisable.
  
• Vertical lines on dress give height.
  
• Avoid various cuts & intricate patterns & large prints.
  
• Wear soft, light weighted materials.
  
• Avoid wearing cloths of contras colour.

For tall & slender women:

• Choose cloth with horizontal lines
  
• Have long hair, make a loose bun at the nape of the neck.
  
• Use accessories of contrast colour.
  
• Wear loose, easy fitting clothes.
  
• Wear puffed sleeves, padded shoulders, cloths of different type of trimming.
  
• Prefer 3/4 length of coats rather than full length.
  
• Choose stiff material like organdie, taffetta etc...that stand out.
  
• Cotton saris gives width & make lady appear heavy.
  
• Cloths with drop shouldered yokes, flared back coats, yokes with horizontal lines help to hide height & broaden the width

Business talk

• Be gentle & humble while talking to any businessperson, government officers, banking person etc....
  
• While talking, be clear in your pronunciation.
  
• Don't argue unnecessarily; first listen carefully to other person.
  
• Talking too loudly/too slowly shows your nervousness.
  
• While attending any important conference instead of getting disturbed & shouting on phone, keep phone on voice-mail.
  
• While being in crowd, you should excuse yourself to talk on phone.
  
• Talk to the point.
  
• List down the points to be discussed before starting meeting.
  
• Your tone should be respectful & polite.
  
• Your speech should reveal your confidence & positive attitude towards your policies & aims.

Casual talk

• Your tone should be friendly one.
  
• Have a good sense of humour.
  
• Don't fill bad or inferior when your friends are teasing you but face them smartly & joyfully.

Social talk

• Be polite while talking.
  
• To convince a child about some thing, tell him its positive/negative points as per the situation.
  
• Always ask elder relative about their health.
  
• Think a lot before talking. Your words shouldn't harm anyone's feelings. Spoken words never come back.
  
• While talking on phone, talk softly so that person surrounding you don't get disturbed.
  

Talk with strangers

• While being at any public place, keep in mind that people surrounding you, are watching you.
  
• Talking very loudly with anybody seems to like a quarrelling.
  
• Do not entertain him/her for long time.
  
• At the same time all strangers are not fraud

Sitting

• Keep your leg under the chair & take care that your leg shouldn't touch anybody.
  
• While travelling by bus/train squeeze yourself & allow others to sit.
  
• Keep your legs properly, so that it doesn't become hurdles for other to walk.
  
• Don't keep your leg on table front of you unless you are alone at home.
  
• Sit straight, touching your back to the chair.
  

Standing

• While in any business meeting don't keep your hand on waist.
  
• Don't keep your one leg on the chair or a small table while talking to somebody.
  
• Give equal pressure on both legs rather than lean on to one side.
  
• Be careful that you do not look rigid.
  
• Keep your chin upwards and face forward
  
• While standing don't band from your back.
  

Walking

• Do not move your hands freely while walking.
  
• Lift your legs & walk, don't rub it with ground.
  
• Do not make noise of your footwear while climbing or getting down from steps.
  
• Take care that your dupatta doesn't sweep the road.
  
• Avoid setting your hair.
  

Business meeting

• If any client comes, shake hands & offer a sit.
  
• Eye contact is very important while talking; it gives satisfaction of being heard to the opposite person.
  
• Ensure your gesture matches with your speech.
  
• Other facial expression like of surprise, anger, happiness, curiosity, sadness etc... are also important.
  
• Your gesture should not overcast your spoken words.
  
• Equally important is to avoid disturbing gestures like biting nails, putting pencil in your mouth, shaking legs, crackling fingers, etc...
  

Public

• Eye contact with audience is very important.
  
• Ensure your gesture matches with your speech.
  
• Keep your chin upwards and face forward.
  
• Pin up your 'dupatta' etc… & fold your hair properly, so that it won't disturb & distract you.
  

Social

• Join your hands or bow down to any elder person.
  
• To stop a child from doing something, just broaden your eyes little instead of shouting & scolding
  
• Avoid playing with your hair, earring or any jewellery.
  
• Keep smiling face.
  
• Equally important is to avoid disturbing gestures like biting nails, putting pencil in your mouth, shaking legs, crackling fingers, etc..

Formal etiquette

• While entering any one's cabin/room, knock first & ask for permission.
  
• Stand up when any chairperson or senior person comes in & sit after he sits.
  
• While meeting any business/government person, have a sit only when offered.
  
• When two people are talking, do not interrupt between them.
  

Social etiquette

• Use napkins or tissue paper to clean perspiration or wet hand.
  
• Pushing others is considered aggressive.
  
• While being in cinema hall or conference room, set mobile to vibrate
  
• Avoid praising your beauty/heavy jewellery i.e. unnecessary show off.
  
• When two people are talking, do not interrupt between them.
  

Dining table manners

• Speak softly.
  
• Don't keep elbows on table while eating.
  
• Avoid touching your hair, face, head.
  
• Don't push your plate & bowl, after you finished.
  
• Avoid talking with your mouth full.
  
• While chewing some thing, don't make noise of it.
  

While in public

• Talk softly.
  
• Through rough papers or any garbage in dust bean only.
  
• Do not spit anywhere in public.
  
• Do not tease or make fun of anybody.
  
• Help any disable (handicap/old people).
  
• Take due care of public property

Positive attitude-

• Optimistic & one with positive attitude search for flowers from the bunch of thrones.
  
• Always be & think positive.
  
• Do not end up the work before it's beginning by concentrating on negative factors.
  
• Keep one thing in mind "Whatever happen, happens for good".
  
• Risk & positive out look is essential for success.
  

Confidence - A key to survive in this world.

• It is one's own capabilities combined with sincere efforts; help one to achieve greater success.
  
• Never loose your confidence due to fear of being rejected.
  
• Confidence enables us to put our thoughts in better words & good manner.
  
• We can highlight our good points with confidence so that our lacking points do not come in picture.
  
• Confidence is fruitful but over confidence is harmful.
  

Self enrichment

• Knowledge enables you to argue, discuss, give opinion, frame decision etc...
  
• As far as possible develop more & more knowledge through books, computers, television, news paper etc.....
  
• Regularly update yourself with current affairs.
  
• Take threat as a challenge & motivate yourself to face it.
  
• You can learn a lot from challenges & mistakes you made.
  
• Try to find out your strength & use it to overcome your weaknesses.
  
• Opportunity knocks once, so grab it without much thinking.
  
• Understand the importance of 'Time', once it gone will never come back.
  
• Hard work, sincerity, honesty, dedication, commitment are also equally important.
  
• Technical as well as managerial knowledge of any task should be clear before starting with it.
  
• Be foresighted, creative, and practical to make things happen.
  
• Contacts are critical.
  

Self esteem- A sense of personal worth.

• Believe in yourself & world will believe you.
  
• Never fill inferior as no man is perfect.
  
• Every person is specialized in particular field.
  
• Don't compare yourself with others.
  
• Don't get pressurized by others unnecessarily.

Boss

• Make him aware of your activities & accomplishments.
  
• If you can't cope up with his speed, let him know indirectly i.e. saying that "Sir, you are ahead of time"
  
• Don't argue with him & try to get what he wants to convey.
  
• Don't talk in between when he is talking.
  
• Solve your queries with him after he finishes his talk.
  
• Thoroughly understand what exactly he wants you to do.
  

Subordinate

• Explain them what is needed & why it is needed?
  
• Give training if required.
  
• Do not interfere with their way of working as far as they are on right track.
  
• Along with responsibility give adequate authority to the subordinates to get better result.
  
• Take regular back up & inspection of work done.
  

Colleague

• Treat them as a friend.
  
• You can make certain moments of your work time light by joking or sharing funny incidence or thoughts.
  
• Provide help when needed.
  

Friends

• Understand their nature, thinking etc...
  
• Share your feelings & thoughts with those friends who, you think are right for that.
  
• Understand when they are joking & when they are serious.
  
• If you come across some wrong thing about any friend, have direct talk with him/her instead of creating misunderstanding.
  

Relatives

• Everyone have their own point of view, so listen to all of them & do what you feel.
  
• As far as possible invite them personally for any occasion/function
  
• Look after for their comforts & make them feel relaxed.
  
• Don't be partial in attending guests.
  
• Those relatives, who are very close to you, part the responsibility of any arrangements with them. They will also feel good for being recognized.